Why many ladies are not short of suitors, some are having it difficult to get someone to seek their hands in Marriage.
Many ladies are having constant broken relationships, they kept on asking why. Most of the time they blame this on spiritual things without knowing that it may be attitudinal problem. Bad attitude they say is like flat tyre of a car and until you change it, you can never go far in life with it.
Here I will show you some bad attitudes of girls that push right guys away from them:
1) TALKING LIKE MEGAPHONE: There is a way a lady should talk; she should talk like a baby not like an army Commander. Talking loudly like a megaphone, shouting, yelling like a football fan cheering Lionel Messi will not help your course at all.
2) MISS CONTROLLER: Some ladies are controllers; they always want to be in charge wherever they find themselves. They take over conversation without allowing guys to talk. They take over the life of the guy and behave like his mother; wise guys will read between the lines and flee.
3) DIRTY LINNEN: Some ladies can’t just stop talking, as soon as they begin to eat, they begin to talk, exposing all their dirty past to a guy within one hour of meeting him because of eating 100 naira fish pie. Number of people they’ve dated, number of abortions they’ve had, many beans will be spilled and many can of worm will be opened within minutes. But the guy will hardly talk about himself.
3) GLUTTONY: eating like glutton on their first date with a guy. You take Fried rice, Ofada, jollof, fried plantain, beans, popcorn, fish, assorted meats, swallows, in your stomach alone? The guy thought you are done, but you ordered for malt drink, yogurt, coke, wine and fruit juice to quench your thirst forgetting that his intention was to woo you and get serious with you. He will never come back; he will not allow your mouth to send him back to the village.
4) CASH MACHINE: when a lady becomes a cash machine, guys will take to their legs. Demanding for Transport fare before agreeing to visit a man, makes them look cheap and greedy
5) FAKE LIFE: they live fake and cosmetic life. Borrowing clothes, shoes and Bags to visit a man. The guy will know that you borrow it when he never sees the cloth and shoes on you again. Why living fake life?
6) NO APPRECIATION: you’ve never been appreciative of anything you received. Wife materials are appreciative, kill and go will not, an average man knows the difference.
7) CONSUMER: they are consumers; when they see money it must finish. They demand for money every moment. When guys give them money to prepare soup, they will spend all the money and still ask the man for more. Wife materials spend within budget.
8) “MISS RIGHT” ATTITUDE: they are always right; they will prove their right no matter what. They can never be wrong. Men detest girls like this.
9) NO APOLOGY: they can do so many bad things, lying, double dating etc when they are eventually caught in the action they can never apologize
10) BARRISTER: they argue endlessly, they seem to know all things and will never stop unless you agree with them. They always make sure they have the last say.
11) CHEWING GUM GIRL: your Mouth cannot just stop eating, chewing and blowing. You have this bad reputation of chewing gum like a cow chewing cud. You can’t just stop; even in Church. It makes you look irresponsible and great guys will not get close. you chew gum and blows out a very big balloon like bolombolo…,you are known with it. It’s not witch craft from your Village that will not allow you to marry girl; it’s your Mouth.
12) CALL ME BACK: you don’t value relationships. You can spend hours on phone with your friends talking nothing, but to show that you are a big girl, you can’t call any guy. You came back and saw his 7 missed calls instead of you to call back you sent him “pls call me back sms”…which serious girl and a wife material does that?
13) FLASH GIRL: you always find it difficult to call; you are too big or too stingy to dial his number. He even sent you recharge card and all you could do to reciprocate his kind gesture was to flash him, too bad. He will look for a better lady.
14) MADAM BOTTLE: you are truly Madam bottle; you drink alcohol irresponsibly anywhere you find yourself. Good men hate the sight of a lady taking alcohol, for me it’s unwomanly. Hard drinks are meant for whores, are you?
15) NO ROOM FOR GOD: you have no heart for God; you can go to work, you can attend party on Saturday, but when it’s Sunday that’s when you remember all your dirty clothes in your box. My sister, go to church and who knows God might just have mercy on you and find you a husband. Great men love women who fear God.
16) TALKING MACHINE: you are a talkative; when it comes to talking, you really have the anointing; you talk at every slightest opportunity. You talk like my grandpa’s typewriter, papapapapapprapapapa. You don’t mind who is standing behind you…as a potential wife you learn how to tame your tongue.
17) FIGHTING ALICE: some girls have fighting spirit, or fighting spirit have them. At every misunderstanding you have with your fiancé you raise your voice and even go as far as threatening to beat or bite him. Who will marry his head mistress?
18) PATHOLOGICAL LYING: you lie a lot, even when you were caught in the very act you use another lie to cover up. You are dangerous.
19) DESPERATE FOR MARRIAGE: you are too desperate for marriage and you can’t hide it. You met a guy just this week you are already saying, “when will you visit my parents?” “Is December not okay for our wedding?” The guy will see desperation and begin to avoid you.
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