*CLEANLINESS* should be done before sex by both spouse. Husband can use exotic perfumes
*DUA BEFORE SEX WITH YOUR SPOUSE*
New couple can observe 2 Rakat of prayer while the wife should be at his back.
The husband can touch her forehead and say:
When you marry a woman, say: “O Allah, I ask You for the goodness within her and the goodness that you have made her inclined towards, and I seek refuge with You from the evil within her and the evil that you have made her inclined towards.”
Transliteration
allaahumma innee as’aluka khayrahaa, wa khayra maa jabaltahaa ‛alayh, wa a‛oodhu bika min sharrihaa, wa sharri maa jabaltahaa ‛alayh
Follow by:
"In the name of Allah. O Allah, keep the devil away from us and keep the devil away form what you have blessed us with."
*“Bismillahi, Allahumma jannibnaa ash-shaitaan, wa jannib ash-shaitaan maa razaqtanna”*
Experienced couples need to say the second one anytime the want to have sex
About this, the Prophet said: *“After that, if Allah decrees that they will have a child, the devil will never be able to harm that child”*. [al-Bukharee]
NOTE: Some Scholars say that children are disobedient to their parents usually because the parents forget/forgot to say the above duaa before having sex.
pre-intimacy! pre-intimacy! pre-intimacy!
pre-intimacy is Highly Recommended
Islam emphasizes on pre-intimacy. Imam ‘Ali (A.S.) says, *“When you intend to have sex with your wife, do not rush because the woman (also) has needs (which should be fulfilled).”*
There are no rules and laws in pre-intimacy as to how it should be done. The only laws and rules are the ones reached by the lovers by mutual consent and often unspoken understanding.
Whatever is pleasing and satisfying to both the husband and the wife is right and proper; and whatever is mutually displeasing is wrong.
The only limitation to this general rule would be any Shariah rule which goes against the wishes of the husband or the wife
1 Sex without pre-intimacy has been equated to cruelty. The Prophet (SAW) said, *“Three people are cruel: …a person who has sex with his wife before pre-intimacy.”*
2 Another hadith equates sex without pre-intimacy to animal behavior: “When anyone of you has sex with his wife, then he should not go to her like birds; instead he should be slow and delaying.”
If your wife complain of sexual unsatisfied, then increase the pre-intimacy before sex
3 As for the role of a woman in sexual pre-intimacy, the Imams (A.S.) have praised a wife who discards shyness when she is with her husband.
Imam Muhammad al-Baqir says,
*“The best woman among you is the one who discards the armor of shyness when she undresses for her husband, and puts on the armor of shyness when she dresses up again.”*
Throw away shyness when having sex with your husband
This means that it's not good for a woman to feel shy when playing with her husband.
If you are a Malima, when it comes to that, forget about your Malima things and "open fire"
There is no loophole in Islam. It's a way of life.
Don't come near your husband in the night with a hijab or a niqab or some rough dressing*
*The decent dressing you wear when out is no longer "decent" at that moment*. when you return to your husband in the night, *put that away, wear tight, short, transparent dresses or go nude. Simple.*
It is allowed for a Muslim man to enter his wife in her vagina from any direction he wishes – from behind or from the front just think of any style on the condition that it is done through vaginal. About this Allah revealed the following verse:
*“Your wives are a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how you will” Al-Quran: al-Baqarah 2:223
Do it anytime: Day or night
Women should not fast without the permission of the husband, except mandatory fast and when you are fasting the voluntary fast, both can break it because of sex
Ladies please don't deny your husband when he needs it
DO YOU WANT ANOTHER ROUND??
Try to take a bath before another round, this will increase your strength or at least perform ABLUTION
As far as I know, their is no limitations to where spouses can see from each other
PROHIBITIONS DURING SEX
1- It is strictly prohibited to come to her through ANUS
Don't do or allow it except you're inviting punishment from Allah
2- Don't have sex during menstruation however, you can do other things
3- Mouth Action: This attitude is disliked among the scholars. Some related it to animal behavior and it is common among the west. Watching porn has been the source of learning this behavior and their is a serious warning regarding the act.
It is very possible to contact some disease like cancer of the throat and many more through this act of which we are forbade to injure ourselves and if you die as a result, it is related to commit suicide
4- It is harram to watching or learning various sexual styles through porn be warned.
5- Masturbation is harram
Wallahu Tahala Ahlam
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