One of the common events that almost everybody observes and
celebrates is birthday anniversary. It is a day that celebrants invite friends
and family to dine with them. Some people can even go as far as borrowing money
just to ensure that they have an elaborate birthday ceremony. I’m not against
birthday celebration, but the problem I have is that vast majority of people
who are crazy about such celebration has a shallow understanding of what
birthday connotes. And as a result, instead of majoring in the major things,
they end up majoring in the minors.
What is a birthday anniversary? To the majority, birthday
anniversary is celebrated when they add a year to their initial age. They are
often happy for the fact that they are alive to see a new year in the land of
the living, and being in good health condition and so on. The truth of the matter is that as you
advance in age, you are gradually becoming an endangered specie. Your birthday anniversary marks a day you lose a complete 365 days of your
existence. It means that your expiry date is drawing closer. Is celebrating the
fact that we are alive and in good health the ultimate or reflecting on how
we’ve spent our years so far? I think this should be a day of reflective
thinking to every sane and highly conscious individual, a day to compare your
current age to your achievements.
Your birthday anniversary should be a day you
think about your life, and how much progress you are making in terms of
achieving your life time goals. Surprisingly, some don’t even have a life time
goal not to talk of evaluating them, and yet they are celebrating their
birthday every year. The root cause of a behavior of this kind can only be
traced to ignorance and foolishness.
It is not the longevity of your existence
that counts, but the impart you make within your scope of existence.
Personally, am here not to just occupy space like an ordinary matter, but to
make the world a better place, and after my demise, my family, community,
friends and the world would be happy that I came. What about you?
You can celebrate your birthday, but I Suggest it should be
done in terms of your achievement and not that you are still alive. You will be
regarded a fool if you celebrate your birthday elaborately without having a
mental picture of where you want to be between now and the next five years.
Remember, time is running, are you?
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