Cancer Of The Breast, Diabetes & Hypertensive Killed Our Mother - Children Of Late Bukky Ajayi
How Bukky Ajayi battled breast cancer, cerebral malaria — Children
On
Wednesday, July 6, Nollywood was thrown into mourning when the news
filtered out that veteran actress and broadcaster, Ma Bukky Ajayi has
passed on. It was a rude shock but not one too difficult to understand
given that the legendary thespian has been battling ill-health for
sometime. What will however be difficult to appreciate is the vacuum she
has left behind. Because, she was undeniably one of the best and
greatest talents to have ever graced the Nigerian creative arts screen.
As
a Muslim, she was buried the same day she died. In fact one of our
neighbours confided in Potpourri that she gave the instruction that she
should be buried same day she dies. But she wasn’t born a Muslim, she
converted to Islam in 1965 and adopted the name ‘Zainab’.
Since
the news of her death broke, there have been nothing but ovation for the
late actress. Actors Guild of Nigeria declared two-day mourning, just
as her colleagues, friends, neighbours and well-wishers are full of
praises for her.
How she died: Her last moments
According
to Claudius Akinwade Peter-Thomas, a musician and second son of the
late icon, “There aren’t enough words to quantify Mama. She was an
independent woman who shouldered the responsibility of raising three
lions (sons) without raising her brows. I see her as a lioness. She was
also able to combine and manage her situation (single motherhood) and
her career. She was a good planner.
To that effect, my elder
brother is nine years older than me, and I am 11 years older than my
younger brother. A good planner she was. Despite being in the public
glare, she ensured her private life remained private. Many of my friends
didn’t know I was the daughter of the popular actress. This is not
because she wasn’t proud of her children, but because she was able to
draw the line between her career and her family. People relate with me
as Raz CPT and not the daughter of a celebrity, so to say. Mummy has
been struggling with her health, she had cancer of the breast, diabetic
and was also hypertensive.”
Kunle Fawole, popularly known as Abounce and the last child of the family spoke about her last moments.
“I
and mama were in the living room with some of my friends when I noticed
that her heart wasn’t moving, I mean like she stopped breathing.
Immediately, I checked her pulse and called my elder brothers. We felt
her pulse and heartbeat, did everything possible. But alas, she has
passed on. And that was at about 11:23 am on Wednesday. She was a bit
ill before this happened. She had been ill for a number of years now.
She had stroke some couple of years back. There was a time she also had
cerebral malaria. She became diabetic, hypertensive and also suffered
breast cancer before now”, he explained mournfully.
Mr Alfred
Oluwole Shoga was Bukky Ajayi’s first son, a 60-year old man said they
were shocked but thankful they are alive to bury her and not her
witnessing their deaths. “At 60, my mother still gives me money each
time I visit her and I will say, `Mum I’m suppose to give you money’ and
she will say I should use it for transportation” he said, speaking as
if she were still alive.
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