When these signs start creeping in, know
that your relationship might soon be over.
Here are the 22 tell-tale signs according to
Tracey Cox to tell you that your relationship
is over.
1. You feel physically unsafe
This is the absolute deal breaker for most people and rightly so.
2. Something amazingly good or awful happens and they aren’t the first person you call It’s a subtle but vital ‘Eureka’ moment
when you realise you’ve just called three
best friends before even thinking of phoning
your partner to tell them important news.
3. You think about contacting your exes –
or actually do it
The more unsure you feel about your
current relationship, the more exes start to
swim their way back into your
consciousness.
4. You’re putting out feelers to see if
you’ve still ‘got it’
Plenty of people leave the relationship
they’re in while they’re still in it.
You realise you’re flirting with friends,
making eye contact with strangers,
checking your attractiveness.
If you’re thinking about contacting your
exes, it may be time to call it a day (stock
picture)
If you’re thinking about contacting your
exes, it may be time to call it a day (stock
picture)
5. You’re sick of feeling constantly upset
or angry
You’ve been trying to solve your problems
for a long time and all the angst, anger,
sadness and constant anxiety has taken its
toll.
You’re stretched to breaking point.
6. You’re getting sick all the time
You catch every single illness that’s going
around because your immune system is
weakened from all the fighting.
The third cold you’ve had this month is the
straw that breaks you.
7. You’re honest about what’s going on
You’re no longer pretending it’s great or
air-brushing when you describe your
relationship to close friends.
Tracey says if you realise you’ve been
doing all the work all along, it may be time
to end it
Tracey says if you realise you’ve been
doing all the work all along, it may be time
to end it.
8. You realise it takes two people to break
a relationship as well as make it
You’re finally able to step back and look
logically at what’s working and what isn’t
– and aren’t kidding yourself it’s all their
fault.
You’re aware that even if your partner is an
absolute scumbag, the fact you’re staying
with someone who is clearly bad for you
means you need to look at any toxic love
habits.
9. You realise you like you, even if they
don’t
Some exes have helped you see ‘faults’
that were worth fixing but this person’s
trying to alter the core of you.
10. The world is full of attractive people
again
When you were in love and happy, invisible
shutters seemed to filter the ‘hotness’ of
strangers: you notice good-looking people
but their attractiveness is on a muted
setting.
Suddenly, it’s like someone’s turned the
volume up to MAXIMUM. Everyone seems
to be appealing in some way.
11. You realise you’ve been doing all the
work, all along
While you’ve been bending and flexing and
moulding yourself to fit around them, they
haven’t altered one thing.
12. You see a dodgy message on their
social media and really can’t be bothered
asking about it
Instead of making you feel upset and
betrayed, you’re quite pleased to find proof
they really aren’t ever going to change.
13. You realise you can’t truly trust them
to do anything important
This goes for everything from turning off
the stove to feeding the cat to not hitting
on your best friend or looking after your visiting Mum.
14. Same s***, different day
You really thought you’d solved the problem
once and for all but here it comes again.
15. If they fell for someone else, it would actually do you a favour
You wouldn’t look like the bad guy for wanting to leave.
16. You’re sick of treading on eggshells .A life spent tip-toeing around someone is intensely stressful. It dawns on you that
the only time you truly relax is when they leave the house.
17. You might still love them but you don’t actually like them any more.You realise if you met your partner for the
first time now, you’d not only have nothing
in common, you’d actively dislike them.
18. You’ve avoided having sex with them for months Yhe point where you get ‘skin crawl’ at the
thought of sex – or you’re so angry, you’re
not sure you trust yourself to get physically
close.
19. You don’t care if you are ‘throwing
away’ all those years spent together by
leaving
Why would you want to waste another
second of your life on someone who really
isn’t worth it?
20. You realise you haven’t laughed
together in years
You don’t even have the same sense of
humour.
21. You feel like you’re on a reality TV
show – and not in a good way
The soap opera element is starting to seem
farcical.
22. You’ve stopped obsessing about ‘What
if I don’t meet anyone else?’
There’s nothing lonelier than being in the
wrong relationship.
If you never meet anyone again, it’s still
better than being in this goddamn awful
place.
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